Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Why I Blog

I watched a video the other day that really put my blogging life in perspective. It's from The Bloggy Boot Camp site which the lovely Neely had a link to on Twitter or Facebook, and it really got me to thinking about why I blog.


I'm not going to lie, the past few months I really toyed with the idea of completely shutting down my blog altogether. For some reason I just wasn't getting the satisfaction of it like I use to. I was too caught up in the numbers part - I don't have a huge following, few comments, etc.. But after watching the above video it really got me to thinking....why in this world do I blog, and the answer was...

I blog for my own personal gratification.

Yes, we all tend to get caught up in the numbers, but honestly that's not what matters. I find when that happens I hate blogging. I get jealous of so many other bloggers because of this, even of the blogs I love dearly. When I first started this little blog almost 3 years ago it wasn't about my following. No matter how crappily written posts I wrote, I did it for one thing, me. I'm slowly but surely getting back to that, and surprisingly enough I find more motivation and inspiration to write when I write for the sole purpose of writing for myself. 

I sincerely hope that I find more joy in blogging in the coming months than these past few, because sometimes I've really just wanted to hit the "delete" button. 

Before I turn this into a pity party, why do you blog?

6 comments:

MELISSA H said...

lovely blog! (:

http://xdirtylittlesecret.blogspot.com/

Rebekah said...

This is precisely why I blog! It's not for the numbers, although I do love all of you :), it's just for me! I love having my own little space that is just mine.

Leslie said...

Honestly, I've been going through the same thing. I used to look forward to writing my blogposts each day and over the past few months it's almost become a hassle. I get caught up in numbers too.. and I have serious jealousy issues with some bloggers. It's so bad. But in the New Year I'm trying to have a more positive look at it.. and revert to my old ways. I hate what I've let blogging become to me. I want to LOVE it again rather than think about quitting altogether. Love your blog Heather!!

Megan said...

I totally agree!! Of course sometimes it's hard not to get caught up in numbers, but blogging really is a personal thing that we do for ourselves!! I love having all my memories written out to remember forever!!

Amber said...

I loved this post! And I just linked back to it in my new post :)
Hope you're having a great weekend!

Mr.Clive said...

cool!
cam across urs and u had the same theme as mine! XD

http://byclive.blogspot.com/2011/12/why-do-bloggers-blog.html

haha.
anyway,had fun reading urs.